One day I was thinking about my own life and how could I benchmark excellence in what I do day to day. Every day I, like everyone else, faces challenges and obstacles that impact the outcomes for the day. I realized that there was no "magic" number or metric that I could use that would say; today was successful!
I decided there had to be a some kind of way of intuitively recognizing if the day had been excellent or not. After some thought, over some weeks, I came up with the Artful Life. Every night as I review the day I ask myself one question:
If today was a painting, would I sign it?
This one question puts the whole day into perspective for me. I realized through this exercise that my life is a canvas. What I do every day is part of the mural of my life. If at the end of the day, I feel good enough about the day that I can sign it, I can go to sleep knowing I have done my best. If not, then I recognize the areas where I did not meet my standards and resolve to do better next time.
This exercise then led to additional thoughts about how I live my life. Is my life an artful expression. When I am looking to buy something, I now look at it from an Artful Life perspective. Will this object add to the quality of my life, or is it just stuff? I look around and my life is filled with stuff that does nothing to add to an Artful Life for me. As I think about it more, I realize that stuff contributes to mediocrity, to feeling overwhelmed with the maintenance and the storage of it all.
I also began to see that the handmade pottery from a local potter was something that made my life and world better. I now use a fountain pen instead of a ballpoint because of the way it makes everything I write more special. I am looking to renew my wardrobe with fewer, better made clothes that will last longer with classical good looks.
Last Christmas I bought a game system. I thought this was a great purchase because I could watch Bluray discs and play the up to the minute games. Other than play bluray discs, I do not have the time to play video games. Moreover, I can't figure out how to play the games I do have! In short, this purchase did little to add to an Artful Life. I would have been better to buy a bluray disc player and be done with it!
In evaluating what we have around us, what we need and what we desire; what will add to the quality of our life? What do we really need to paint a fabulous picture that at the end of every day we are willing to sign it?
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